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Monday, 7 July 2008
From Om to Orgasm book review
A book review by Hakeem Alexander
(Exercising Your Mind) I am infinitely grateful to have been honored with a copy of From Om to Orgasm autographed by the veritably masterful yet dearly humble authors Chandi Devi and J. Ram Siva. I believe this marks the first time I have ever read a 300 page tome three(3) consecutive times in a row ever eager to gain a more meaningful grasp of the Ancient Wisdom presented in this Modern Text.
From Om to Orgasm is an impeccably researched and referenced Scientific Document that simultaneously ignites a Spiritual fire within any being whether they be advanced practitioners or novices. I have been presented with a fabulous opportunity from the words and awakening provided by the passages within.
I invite anyone who mistakenly believes that Tantra is only about sex, to study these blessed pages to come to know the true union of Body and Soul that is infused throughout the teachings carefully laid out in this literary wonder entitled "From Om to Orgasm".
"From Om to Orgasm" by Chandi Devi and J. Ram Siva has not only been a primer, but will certainly serve as a constant reference in my personal growth and healing practice. From Om to Orgasm truly marks the mastery of the authors as teachers, for they have brought to clarity many apparently complex subjects I have longed to elucidate. This book dispels myths and misconceptions. More importantly, it inspires, uplifts and enlightens the reader in the most elegant fashion and as an eagerly page turning motivator.
From Om to Orgasm has been at once a promise fulfilled as my hunger for awareness and comprehension have been satiated, as well as an affirmation of many long-held intuitions of my own that are now firm beliefs in large part due to the support and encouragement found within the pages of this fantastic labor of light.
From Om to Orgasm is simply a great achievement of creative endeavor that brings the Science of Tantra into blissful understanding for those greenhorns seeking an introduction to the subject such as myself, and from the conversations I have had with the more adept, I am convinced that it would surely benefit them as a renewed source of motivation.
From Om to Orgasm is truly a remarkable gift that opens with the basics of "eastern philosophy" and Ancient Wisdom. It then integrates these time-tested and honored philosophies with J. Ram Siva's and Chandi Devi's modern perspective stemming from personal experience.
From Om to Orgasm has invigorated my Yoga Practice as well as my revitalizing my Spiritual seeking and is destined to be a classic text to be revered and celebrated by many enthusiastic seekers and leaders alike. Right from the Preface to the Epilogue, From Om to Orgasm is at once calming and exciting as it is a road-map to full understanding with a climax that although quite satisfying, leaves you desiring and thirsting for more knowledge and guidance.
I am so truly thankful that my friends Chandi and J. Ram have shared this wonderful gift of union with me. I am in awe of your knowledge and have finally found in you someone I can call my Guru, Teacher, Master.
ISBN: 9781434349606
Published by Author House:
http://www.authorhouse.com/BookStore/ItemDetail~bookid~47637.aspx
Also visit their Websites: http://www.TheWorldOfTantra.com
http://karmacaffe.com
Hakeem Alexander’s site: www.HypnoAthletics.com
(Exercising Your Mind) I am infinitely grateful to have been honored with a copy of From Om to Orgasm autographed by the veritably masterful yet dearly humble authors Chandi Devi and J. Ram Siva. I believe this marks the first time I have ever read a 300 page tome three(3) consecutive times in a row ever eager to gain a more meaningful grasp of the Ancient Wisdom presented in this Modern Text.
From Om to Orgasm is an impeccably researched and referenced Scientific Document that simultaneously ignites a Spiritual fire within any being whether they be advanced practitioners or novices. I have been presented with a fabulous opportunity from the words and awakening provided by the passages within.
I invite anyone who mistakenly believes that Tantra is only about sex, to study these blessed pages to come to know the true union of Body and Soul that is infused throughout the teachings carefully laid out in this literary wonder entitled "From Om to Orgasm".
"From Om to Orgasm" by Chandi Devi and J. Ram Siva has not only been a primer, but will certainly serve as a constant reference in my personal growth and healing practice. From Om to Orgasm truly marks the mastery of the authors as teachers, for they have brought to clarity many apparently complex subjects I have longed to elucidate. This book dispels myths and misconceptions. More importantly, it inspires, uplifts and enlightens the reader in the most elegant fashion and as an eagerly page turning motivator.
From Om to Orgasm has been at once a promise fulfilled as my hunger for awareness and comprehension have been satiated, as well as an affirmation of many long-held intuitions of my own that are now firm beliefs in large part due to the support and encouragement found within the pages of this fantastic labor of light.
From Om to Orgasm is simply a great achievement of creative endeavor that brings the Science of Tantra into blissful understanding for those greenhorns seeking an introduction to the subject such as myself, and from the conversations I have had with the more adept, I am convinced that it would surely benefit them as a renewed source of motivation.
From Om to Orgasm is truly a remarkable gift that opens with the basics of "eastern philosophy" and Ancient Wisdom. It then integrates these time-tested and honored philosophies with J. Ram Siva's and Chandi Devi's modern perspective stemming from personal experience.
From Om to Orgasm has invigorated my Yoga Practice as well as my revitalizing my Spiritual seeking and is destined to be a classic text to be revered and celebrated by many enthusiastic seekers and leaders alike. Right from the Preface to the Epilogue, From Om to Orgasm is at once calming and exciting as it is a road-map to full understanding with a climax that although quite satisfying, leaves you desiring and thirsting for more knowledge and guidance.
I am so truly thankful that my friends Chandi and J. Ram have shared this wonderful gift of union with me. I am in awe of your knowledge and have finally found in you someone I can call my Guru, Teacher, Master.
ISBN: 9781434349606
Published by Author House:
http://www.authorhouse.com/BookStore/ItemDetail~bookid~47637.aspx
Also visit their Websites: http://www.TheWorldOfTantra.com
http://karmacaffe.com
Hakeem Alexander’s site: www.HypnoAthletics.com
From OM to Orgasm - Tantric Yoga Book Review & Conversation
From OM to Orgasm - Tantric Yoga Book Review & Conversation
By James Bean
June 2008
Exploring the World Religions
"From OM to Orgasm -- The Tantra Primer for Living in Bliss"
by Chandi Devi and J.
Ram Sivananda
ISBN: 9781434349606
Published by Author House:
http://www. authorhouse. com/BookStore/ItemDetail~bookid~47637. aspx
Website: http://www. TheWorldOfTantra. com
Now I know what you're thinking: "Oh no! What does sex have to do with spirituality and exploring the world religions?" There's this funny saying I once came up with: 'If your parents never had sex, chances are, you won't either..'
On a more serious note. The art of tantra, despite what some in the West have done to present it in a way that is divorced from it's holistic, traditional Hindu context giving it a different sort of reputation, one might say, nevertheless is very spiritual and integrated with other aspects of Hinduism and the Yoga system..
I recently interviewed Chandi Devi, one of the authors of an impressive new book on Tantra yoga. Below is part of that conversation..
J: Thanks for joining me Chandi to talk about your new book.
Chandi: Hi James and thank you for having me..
J: It's my pleasure. What really impresses me about your book on Tantra is how Hindu it is, which actually makes sense of course! Tantra is a practice that come from the Indian tradition, emanates from the subcontinent of India, but I notice it's a book as much about Hinduism, Yoga, and spirituality as it is a book about sexuality. For some reason here in the West, Tantra often gets abused, reduced to sex only. I notice that sort of cultural filtering or tampering sometimes can be an issue or danger with certain teachings from other parts of the world. I can think of several examples where groups or teachers based in the West have gone into business, grabbed, repackaged ideas they have picked up on, perhaps without even being on good terms with Eastern Masters, ending up giving reduced or edited versions of teachings or techniques, yet actually claiming to speak for, or represent, a certain discipline. But if one should happen to get acquainted with the original path or discipline back in India, one realises that the "imported" version is only providing part of the picture, not the whole thing, as we've seen with Tantra, in this case: just the physical component perhaps without the spiritual being included. Sometimes imitation is NOT the highest form of flattery.. [Laughter..]
Chandi: Yes, Tantra has it's roots in Hinduism. It'is very spiritual and there are no shortcuts. Like you were saying, the subject of Tantra has been treated in the West as merely a yoga of sex, and with no preparation necessary, you just get into it and get as much of it as you like. They have reduced it to that when it is so much more. Tantra is so divine. We wanted to show the people of the West in particular that Tantra is a path. It is not a recreation, and it is not pedestrian sex. Sex is a part of it because in Tantra we accept everything as worship to God. If you approach everything that you do as a method to reach God or as an acknowledgement of His divine-ness, then your approach to living and your way of thinking -- everything, becomes transformed. Tantra is about transformation: transforming the base into higher states of consciousness..
J: And meditation is part of Tantra as well, visualisation, or what you would call inner techniques?
Chandi: Oh definitely! Meditation is the first step. Before even approaching Tantric sex with a partner it would be very helpful if the parties involved would have already established some kind of meditation practice, because in the love-making they can bring this meditation knowledge or awareness into the sex act. This is what gives it all its power and makes it so ecstatic..
I think it is very important if you have some knowledge of the Right-Hand Path, which is the meditation practices, chanting, reciting mantras, journaling, contemplation -- all of that. It's important to have a little bit of that background, because when you approach Tantra without that, it can wreak havoc on you -- it really can...... and I had first-hand experience.....but with the knowledge that what you are doing -- all the techniques, it just makes Tantra a lot more understandable. If you just dive into Tantra and say, "Wow, this is great. I can have sex all night long!" That's not Tantra. It can be part of it, but that's not it. So basically, Tantra is about energy, taking that energy -- sexual energy, and transforming it from the base of your spine all the way up to your Shasrara, the Seventh Chakra. You can do it through meditation, or chanting, reciting mantras -- it's also done with a partner. The whole process is for evolvement of the soul and not a de-volvement. Now, what's happened is that, if you bypass or skip the preparation part of Tantra, you miss a whole lot of the practice. That's where the joy is. That's where the permanence is. You can experience temporary awakenings if you want to call it that, or experience a shooting energy going up your spine and showering over your head and everything, but, unless it is maintained and cultivated and nurtured, you can loose it. You don't want to loose something like that. Once you have it you want to keep it. You want to treasure it and take care of it. For this reason you do the other practices we mentioned earlier, all the practices, the basis of Hinduism..
J: So Tantra practice is part of that same journey of ascension: going up the chakras -- consciousness raising, in other words.
It is another yoga or path towards that same ultimate experience?
Chandi: Oh yes. Positively it is a yoga, with all the same terms, concepts and principals, such as karma, ego, dharma, maya, being mindful.......all of this is included in the practice. It is not a frivolous path of pedestrian sex. That is not what Tantra is, and there are consequences and dangers if you approach it in that way. That's why we wrote the book, because we're trying to show people how they can maintain this ecstatic state by just doing some simple things. Granted. It is hard. We don't have enough time to do all the things that we want to do, much less to sit for an hour or two a day when you're in traffic for an hour or two a day, but what we did was try to also include exercises that can be done in five minutes or less. Just simple things you can do..
The book is for people who have very busy schedules, also want to practice in private and not have to go to workshops or classes, but they want to improve their relationship with their partner. Tantra is the best way to improve your relationship and build intimacy with your beloved. If you want to experience spiritual sex, all of these things have to be considered. In the book we cover exercises to do. There are many illustrations as well, quick tips, and charts that can help the seeker, the practitioner as they try to experience this path called Tantra..
In this book we have attempted to present the facets, the gems of light that make for a successful and orgasmic life, not just sexually, but spiritually as well..
Once you have the information, it is important to get out of your head and into your heart, for there is where the real magic and transformation takes place. This is our true center, where all the reflected light of the galaxies, the stars, and the planets affect our entire being. Nityananda said, "The heart is the hub of all places; go there and roam.."
Quote from the book:
"We can meditate, chant and do all the practices with reverence, and we can still be "light", and at ease about it. We can laugh even in the midst of a meditation, or dance, or during sex and savor the moment. Meditation doesn't have to be serious business and it should not be. Have fun with it, have fun with your partner. Laugh, love and live with passion. Being spiritual doesn't mean you should become pious, have no sense of humor, or become rigid in body and mind.."
Prayer at the end:
May your life be blessed,
May you see only beauty
Know only peace
Hear only harmony
And feel only bliss.
May you live always in sex, love and joy..
Hari Om Tat Sat
OM
By James Bean
June 2008
Exploring the World Religions
"From OM to Orgasm -- The Tantra Primer for Living in Bliss"
by Chandi Devi and J.
Ram Sivananda
ISBN: 9781434349606
Published by Author House:
http://www. authorhouse. com/BookStore/ItemDetail~bookid~47637. aspx
Website: http://www. TheWorldOfTantra. com
Now I know what you're thinking: "Oh no! What does sex have to do with spirituality and exploring the world religions?" There's this funny saying I once came up with: 'If your parents never had sex, chances are, you won't either..'
On a more serious note. The art of tantra, despite what some in the West have done to present it in a way that is divorced from it's holistic, traditional Hindu context giving it a different sort of reputation, one might say, nevertheless is very spiritual and integrated with other aspects of Hinduism and the Yoga system..
I recently interviewed Chandi Devi, one of the authors of an impressive new book on Tantra yoga. Below is part of that conversation..
J: Thanks for joining me Chandi to talk about your new book.
Chandi: Hi James and thank you for having me..
J: It's my pleasure. What really impresses me about your book on Tantra is how Hindu it is, which actually makes sense of course! Tantra is a practice that come from the Indian tradition, emanates from the subcontinent of India, but I notice it's a book as much about Hinduism, Yoga, and spirituality as it is a book about sexuality. For some reason here in the West, Tantra often gets abused, reduced to sex only. I notice that sort of cultural filtering or tampering sometimes can be an issue or danger with certain teachings from other parts of the world. I can think of several examples where groups or teachers based in the West have gone into business, grabbed, repackaged ideas they have picked up on, perhaps without even being on good terms with Eastern Masters, ending up giving reduced or edited versions of teachings or techniques, yet actually claiming to speak for, or represent, a certain discipline. But if one should happen to get acquainted with the original path or discipline back in India, one realises that the "imported" version is only providing part of the picture, not the whole thing, as we've seen with Tantra, in this case: just the physical component perhaps without the spiritual being included. Sometimes imitation is NOT the highest form of flattery.. [Laughter..]
Chandi: Yes, Tantra has it's roots in Hinduism. It'is very spiritual and there are no shortcuts. Like you were saying, the subject of Tantra has been treated in the West as merely a yoga of sex, and with no preparation necessary, you just get into it and get as much of it as you like. They have reduced it to that when it is so much more. Tantra is so divine. We wanted to show the people of the West in particular that Tantra is a path. It is not a recreation, and it is not pedestrian sex. Sex is a part of it because in Tantra we accept everything as worship to God. If you approach everything that you do as a method to reach God or as an acknowledgement of His divine-ness, then your approach to living and your way of thinking -- everything, becomes transformed. Tantra is about transformation: transforming the base into higher states of consciousness..
J: And meditation is part of Tantra as well, visualisation, or what you would call inner techniques?
Chandi: Oh definitely! Meditation is the first step. Before even approaching Tantric sex with a partner it would be very helpful if the parties involved would have already established some kind of meditation practice, because in the love-making they can bring this meditation knowledge or awareness into the sex act. This is what gives it all its power and makes it so ecstatic..
I think it is very important if you have some knowledge of the Right-Hand Path, which is the meditation practices, chanting, reciting mantras, journaling, contemplation -- all of that. It's important to have a little bit of that background, because when you approach Tantra without that, it can wreak havoc on you -- it really can...... and I had first-hand experience.....but with the knowledge that what you are doing -- all the techniques, it just makes Tantra a lot more understandable. If you just dive into Tantra and say, "Wow, this is great. I can have sex all night long!" That's not Tantra. It can be part of it, but that's not it. So basically, Tantra is about energy, taking that energy -- sexual energy, and transforming it from the base of your spine all the way up to your Shasrara, the Seventh Chakra. You can do it through meditation, or chanting, reciting mantras -- it's also done with a partner. The whole process is for evolvement of the soul and not a de-volvement. Now, what's happened is that, if you bypass or skip the preparation part of Tantra, you miss a whole lot of the practice. That's where the joy is. That's where the permanence is. You can experience temporary awakenings if you want to call it that, or experience a shooting energy going up your spine and showering over your head and everything, but, unless it is maintained and cultivated and nurtured, you can loose it. You don't want to loose something like that. Once you have it you want to keep it. You want to treasure it and take care of it. For this reason you do the other practices we mentioned earlier, all the practices, the basis of Hinduism..
J: So Tantra practice is part of that same journey of ascension: going up the chakras -- consciousness raising, in other words.
It is another yoga or path towards that same ultimate experience?
Chandi: Oh yes. Positively it is a yoga, with all the same terms, concepts and principals, such as karma, ego, dharma, maya, being mindful.......all of this is included in the practice. It is not a frivolous path of pedestrian sex. That is not what Tantra is, and there are consequences and dangers if you approach it in that way. That's why we wrote the book, because we're trying to show people how they can maintain this ecstatic state by just doing some simple things. Granted. It is hard. We don't have enough time to do all the things that we want to do, much less to sit for an hour or two a day when you're in traffic for an hour or two a day, but what we did was try to also include exercises that can be done in five minutes or less. Just simple things you can do..
The book is for people who have very busy schedules, also want to practice in private and not have to go to workshops or classes, but they want to improve their relationship with their partner. Tantra is the best way to improve your relationship and build intimacy with your beloved. If you want to experience spiritual sex, all of these things have to be considered. In the book we cover exercises to do. There are many illustrations as well, quick tips, and charts that can help the seeker, the practitioner as they try to experience this path called Tantra..
In this book we have attempted to present the facets, the gems of light that make for a successful and orgasmic life, not just sexually, but spiritually as well..
Once you have the information, it is important to get out of your head and into your heart, for there is where the real magic and transformation takes place. This is our true center, where all the reflected light of the galaxies, the stars, and the planets affect our entire being. Nityananda said, "The heart is the hub of all places; go there and roam.."
Quote from the book:
"We can meditate, chant and do all the practices with reverence, and we can still be "light", and at ease about it. We can laugh even in the midst of a meditation, or dance, or during sex and savor the moment. Meditation doesn't have to be serious business and it should not be. Have fun with it, have fun with your partner. Laugh, love and live with passion. Being spiritual doesn't mean you should become pious, have no sense of humor, or become rigid in body and mind.."
Prayer at the end:
May your life be blessed,
May you see only beauty
Know only peace
Hear only harmony
And feel only bliss.
May you live always in sex, love and joy..
Hari Om Tat Sat
OM
Sunday, 8 July 2007
Scooter Libby
The handling of this Scooter Libby situation is another personification of the manner in which this government has been operating. The government represents the body of the people in America, and as such, it has the responsibility to operate in a manner that benefits the majority, not the elite few.
The pardon or commuting of Scooter Libby, who committed crimes, yes, they were crimes, sends the message that it is perfectly okay to cheat, lie about yourself, lie about others, and cover your tracks. What’s more, there is no or little retribution for these acts of dishonesty. What makes it more incredulous is that this lying, cheating, and deceitful behavior is not only condoned at the highest office in this country, but this adharmic (unethical, immoral) behavior is actually rewarded by the most powerful leader in the world.
As a self-proclaimed Christian, you would expect this President to live and rule according to the wisdom of the Christ. Unfortunately this has not been the case. This is not a judgment; it is an observation of the actions of this country’s leaders for nearly 8 years.
Rule without consciousness and you are left with a legacy of burden. Buddha also showed us ways to live a more fulfilling, rewarding life. He gave us eight principles of conduct that have been, through ignorance, mainly ignored by the administration. One of these is called Samyak Sankalpa, which means that our actions should reflect a proper intention for the good of all. Samyak Vak means we should be honest and truthful.
As aspirants on the spiritual path, we understand that we have individual karma that we will experience at some point in time. When this karma is interfered with, it creates more repercussions for the individual, and effects the collective karma of the groups to which we belong, such as our country.
Where are we going? What are we doing? This Scooter Libby matter, the Gonzales fiasco, the war in Iraq are “topics” that prevent us from understanding the real “issue” here.
The issue is we need a leader who has a true sense of values in his heart, and not just in his mind. We need a leader who has a developed sense of insight and intuition. We need a leader who has control of his ego and an awareness of satchitananda--existence, consciousness, bliss absolute. We need a leader who is a personification of honesty, humility, and honor.
The pardon or commuting of Scooter Libby, who committed crimes, yes, they were crimes, sends the message that it is perfectly okay to cheat, lie about yourself, lie about others, and cover your tracks. What’s more, there is no or little retribution for these acts of dishonesty. What makes it more incredulous is that this lying, cheating, and deceitful behavior is not only condoned at the highest office in this country, but this adharmic (unethical, immoral) behavior is actually rewarded by the most powerful leader in the world.
As a self-proclaimed Christian, you would expect this President to live and rule according to the wisdom of the Christ. Unfortunately this has not been the case. This is not a judgment; it is an observation of the actions of this country’s leaders for nearly 8 years.
Rule without consciousness and you are left with a legacy of burden. Buddha also showed us ways to live a more fulfilling, rewarding life. He gave us eight principles of conduct that have been, through ignorance, mainly ignored by the administration. One of these is called Samyak Sankalpa, which means that our actions should reflect a proper intention for the good of all. Samyak Vak means we should be honest and truthful.
As aspirants on the spiritual path, we understand that we have individual karma that we will experience at some point in time. When this karma is interfered with, it creates more repercussions for the individual, and effects the collective karma of the groups to which we belong, such as our country.
Where are we going? What are we doing? This Scooter Libby matter, the Gonzales fiasco, the war in Iraq are “topics” that prevent us from understanding the real “issue” here.
The issue is we need a leader who has a true sense of values in his heart, and not just in his mind. We need a leader who has a developed sense of insight and intuition. We need a leader who has control of his ego and an awareness of satchitananda--existence, consciousness, bliss absolute. We need a leader who is a personification of honesty, humility, and honor.
Monday, 7 May 2007
How to Maintain An Erection
We are asked all the time how men can maintain an erection for any length of time without depending on drugs. There are ways to address this concern.
Tantrik men do not use artificial methods to get an erection. Drugs can make you hard but it is a localized sensation that still will never give you the experience of a full-bodied internal orgasm. The key is to relax through meditation techniques, and give up the urge to “control” when and how the lingam (penis) will get hard. You would think that it is easy to “relax”, but the fact is we are so conditioned to be in constant activity, whether it is our mind or body, that relaxing is something that has to be learned, and more importantly, it has to be practiced. There is no easy way. Just like building strength and muscles, it takes diligence, and effort.
The good news is that meditation really does work, and you absolutely can and must meditate when you are having sex. It is equally important that your partner has the same goals as you. If you are having sex with someone who doesn’t share your commitment to the practices and meditation, the sex can be great, but it will never have the depth that is only possible when two people are really yoked not just at the genitals, but at their hearts, minds and souls. Their energy fields must be very similar. A “high” energy (positive, conscious) person should not be with a “low” (negative, unconscious) energy person. A person with “fast” or "bright" energy, should avoid a partner who has “slow” and "dark" energy. ALL the chakras (wheels of energy located at the spine) plus the physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, psychic, and etheric bodies should be similarly matched. The lingam and yoni (vagina) size should be matched, as well, because there are chakras within the genitals that when matched, stimulate each other. There is no pressure to perform. With tantric men and their partners, it is pleasurable to go in soft and come out hard.
The sexual experience that has depth without pre-conceived "goals", becomes magical and enlightening.
Another concern that men have is how they can effectively avoid avoid premature ejacualtion. Here is a technique that works very well. When you have the urge to ejaculate, you should take a breath and repeat a mantra (EE-AH OH works well). When the urge has passed you can continue again. You must practice visualization and control the energy in your mind’s eye. All of the techniques demonstrated on the three World of Tantra videos will improve your sexual experience and enjoyment.
Anything worthwhile requires effort and practice, and you must be motivated enough to set aside a half an hour a day to do the exercises if you truly want to master your ejaculation. Not only that but when you can control and transmute the urge you can experience a very deep, internal orgasm that is incomparable to any other “orgasm”.
For more info, please go to http://www.theworldoftantra.com
Tantrik men do not use artificial methods to get an erection. Drugs can make you hard but it is a localized sensation that still will never give you the experience of a full-bodied internal orgasm. The key is to relax through meditation techniques, and give up the urge to “control” when and how the lingam (penis) will get hard. You would think that it is easy to “relax”, but the fact is we are so conditioned to be in constant activity, whether it is our mind or body, that relaxing is something that has to be learned, and more importantly, it has to be practiced. There is no easy way. Just like building strength and muscles, it takes diligence, and effort.
The good news is that meditation really does work, and you absolutely can and must meditate when you are having sex. It is equally important that your partner has the same goals as you. If you are having sex with someone who doesn’t share your commitment to the practices and meditation, the sex can be great, but it will never have the depth that is only possible when two people are really yoked not just at the genitals, but at their hearts, minds and souls. Their energy fields must be very similar. A “high” energy (positive, conscious) person should not be with a “low” (negative, unconscious) energy person. A person with “fast” or "bright" energy, should avoid a partner who has “slow” and "dark" energy. ALL the chakras (wheels of energy located at the spine) plus the physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, psychic, and etheric bodies should be similarly matched. The lingam and yoni (vagina) size should be matched, as well, because there are chakras within the genitals that when matched, stimulate each other. There is no pressure to perform. With tantric men and their partners, it is pleasurable to go in soft and come out hard.
The sexual experience that has depth without pre-conceived "goals", becomes magical and enlightening.
Another concern that men have is how they can effectively avoid avoid premature ejacualtion. Here is a technique that works very well. When you have the urge to ejaculate, you should take a breath and repeat a mantra (EE-AH OH works well). When the urge has passed you can continue again. You must practice visualization and control the energy in your mind’s eye. All of the techniques demonstrated on the three World of Tantra videos will improve your sexual experience and enjoyment.
Anything worthwhile requires effort and practice, and you must be motivated enough to set aside a half an hour a day to do the exercises if you truly want to master your ejaculation. Not only that but when you can control and transmute the urge you can experience a very deep, internal orgasm that is incomparable to any other “orgasm”.
For more info, please go to http://www.theworldoftantra.com
Sunday, 6 May 2007
The Fountain of Youth
Everyone asks me how I maintain my youth, and my answer is simple. On a mundane level,
I never talk about age, ever---yours, mine, anyone's age. Even when I was in my 20's, it was just not my focus. I never developed a timeline of what you do at a certain age, how you act, dress and think at a given age, or what to expect when you reach 30, 40, 50 etc. (aches, pains, memory loss etc)
I never talk about age, ever---yours, mine, anyone's age. Even when I was in my 20's, it was just not my focus. I never developed a timeline of what you do at a certain age, how you act, dress and think at a given age, or what to expect when you reach 30, 40, 50 etc. (aches, pains, memory loss etc)
- I never used the term o-l-d when referring to myself, ever
- I don't consume alcohol
- I don't smoke
- I am a vegetarian
- I stay out of the sun
Doesn't sound like much fun perhaps, but, this is the key. I attribute my good health partly to genetics, but mainly to lifestyle. Postpartum depression and menopausal hotflashes, which many women expect and get, were never in my consciousness, nor in my experience.
So what can you do? There are many things.
First of all, you can be happy. Evoking feelings of happiness are something that we all have to work at. It's not always automatic. We have to make a conscious effort to create, develop and maintain emotions that sustain our feelings of well being at all times. Live in the state of loving awareness. It's not always easy. In fact, it is a huge challenge at times, but no one else can do this for us. Since we create our own reality, we really have no choice.
Secondly, you need to, as Jesus said, become like children again. This is the virgin spirit of the goddess Kumari-- the sweet innocence, the pure joy, the exuberance of life. We often suppress our childlike qualities of wonder and enthusiasm, and replace those feelings with complacency, boredom, suspicion, skepticism and other emotions that stop the flow of joy. Be happy and feel good.
Third, you must take care of your body through good nutrition and exercise. I don't mean just physical exercise to build your physical strength and external body. More than that, I mean exercises for your internal muscularity and organs, which rejuvenate, heal and restore health; exercises that activate sexual energy.
Fourth, make supplements part of your daily routine.
Fifth, have a daily practice that includes meditation and exercise.The primary benefit of a daily tantric practice is to activate, transform and transmute sexual energy. The fountain of youth is the elixir that is released by that orgasmic energy, that electrical energy that flushes your entire being in a cascade of love, peace and timelessness.
Last of all, have plenty of tantric sex!
There is no concept of time and space here. So there is no age.
This is the energy that keeps you young.
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